Self-acceptance is a committed routine and the gradual shift in our thinking and our feeling. It is a practice, a daily practice,
there isn't a magical pill. you won't start loving and accepting yourself in the twinkle of an eye if all your life all you did was hating and hurting yourself and your body; you need time to grow into a self-loving being, you need time to learn, you need time to heal, you need time to allow yourself to feel pleasure again. self-acceptance is a permission to be a human being with flaws, imperfections, failures, irrational behavior sometimes, emotional abracadabras, that is why I don't use terms like "I am a goddess, or You are a goddess" Unless it is for the poetic sake. I prefer believing something that I don't need to question: I am a fucking human being, a woman, made of flesh, blood, neuron cells, lymphs, atoms, ions. And I remind myself daily to own this fact and pay respect to it. I am a human woman, mortal, confused sometimes, sometimes brave and sad, playful, full of feelings, dreams, adventures, and desires, experiencing this world through pleasure and pain, losses and findings, mistakes and successes. and I am fucking loving it I don't need to feel that I am a goddess and then curse myself for every "misbehavior" I have created! because gods and goddesses are perfect!!! but my humanness isn't perfect and I am super ok with it! My body might not be perfect for someone or even for me sometimes It ages, changes, gets new scars, and traces of new experiences, and that is absolutely ok! My body is my life book, my elixir of immortality within my given lifespan, my poetry, my refuge, my guru, my parent, my child It can get thinner, fatter, prettier or maybe uglier I perhaps would care and would want to change, update or edit something and that is absolutely ok, too! But my body is and has always been and will be worth loving by me, first and foremost, despite my hormonal roller-coasters, new beauty trends, life circumstances. My body is and has always been and will be worth respecting by me, first and foremost because I have the gift, the most precious and beautiful one, the gift to experience this human life.
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