One of the most important keys to unleashing your Sensual and Erotic Self is loosening your mental reins. All our opinions, judgments, assumptions, moral codes imprison our free, wild and raw space of sexual imagination. Your breathtaking sexual potential blossoms succulently on the evergreen fertile soil of possibilities, limitlessness and untamed fantasies.
It is up to you to decide how to act physically upon your fantasies. But the most essential moment here is a possibility or even better: possibilities. This sexual fire of your imagination should have the freedom to run like a wild horse. That fire is supposed to burn and dance like a shameless insatiable pagan deep in the darkest and thickest jungle. People are often ashamed of their fantasies. Be it because of earlier sexual traumas, or as a result of the certain restrictions from the society, family or religions which usually lead to suppressing and ignoring one’s fantasies. It is a well-known fact that whenever we suppress our sexual desires or feelings they will always come back to us and sadly enough in an uglier way. Because nothing really vanishes from our heads it just travels to your subconsciousness the so-called “black hole” of our psyche. There “lost and forgotten” it gets even more powerful and we have less control over them! The solution here is to “pull them out of this dark closet” and acknowledge. By doing so we explore their sexual potency and we can get our decision-making power back by finding a way to actually make them “alive” or “conscious”. Yes, some fantasies might push our boundaries or even scare us. But you can use it as a way of exploring your sexual and sensual self better, getting more intimate with your partner, increasing your libido and overall pleasure. You can play out your fantasies with yourself (during the self-pleasuring time) or with a partner but prior to that making sure that this is the safe environment for you and in case of traumas that both of you are on the same page in terms of the limits and boundaries. Another way to approach and free your sexual fantasies is to write them down. Don’t censor yourself. If you are in a trusting relationship with your partner you can even share it with them. Who knows maybe your partner has the same fantasies and was dreaming about this moment. Role-playing can be a very powerful way to spice up your intimate relationships and unveil some new exciting sides in you and your partner. The time has come to explore your fantasies, my dear libertine minds!
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