One of the main problems that women experience when it comes to really enjoying lovemaking and pleasure is the inability to relax and let go. "How do I look? Can he see my stretches or cellulite? What does he think? Am I doing it right? What if he doesn't enjoy? Where is my orgasm? "
The only thing you should do in this case is to try to let go. Stop thinking start feeling. That should be your new mantra. When you dive into your own sensations everything happens naturally and without any complications. If you notice that thoughts start interfering the erotic process change the focus: bring your attention gradually to every part of your body, where the lover touches you, be there, be that spot on your body where his hands and his lips come in contact with your skin. Go with all your essence into this place. Allow these sensations spread out all over your body from head to toes. Be like honey. Sweet, flowing, warm, calling. Your overthinking and the fear of letting go are creating unnecessary dams blocking you and him from the heartfelt gratification. The real blissful erotic experience happens when you become the pleasure itself. There is nothing more that exists outside of what you feel. It is just you and your pleasure. If you learn how to stay present and focus on sensations you will learn how to gift the unmeasurable pleasure to your partner and enhance the titillation in both of you. Nothing makes a woman more desirable than her ability to shut down the mental voice and surrender fully and irreversibly to her own pleasure and lust and as a result to her partner's presence and love. What prevents you from letting go during your erotic process?
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